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How to respond to a job offer: thank them, get it in writing, then decide.

Your first reply to an offer doesn't have to be yes or no. A warm thank-you, a request for the written details and an agreed decision date are all you need at first.

Updated Nov 4, 2026 · Advice from a career coach, labelled as advice
Quick answer

When you receive a job offer, thank the employer warmly, ask for the offer in writing if it was verbal, and confirm when they need your answer. If you need time, ask for a specific short extension. If you have other processes, tell those employers you have an offer and a deadline. Then review the written terms, negotiate if needed, and accept or decline in writing.

What to do

The first 48 hours

Advice

Verbal offers

A phone offer is good news, not the final terms. Ask for the written offer before you accept.

Asking for time

A request for a few days to review is normal. Give a specific date rather than an open-ended request.

Multiple offers

Tell other employers you have an offer and the deadline. Some will speed up; some won't.

Start date

A start date that allows notice to your current employer is normal to ask for.

Templates

4 copy-ready templates

Advice

Illustrative: names, companies, dates and numbers in these templates and examples are fictional. Replace every bracket with your own true details before you use anything.

Thank you and request written offer

When to use: After a verbal offer.

Template · illustrative
Hi [Name],

Thank you so much for the call today; I'm really excited about the [Role] opportunity. Could you send the offer details in writing so I can review them? When would you need my decision?

Best regards,
[Your name]

Ask for more time

When to use: When you need a few days.

Template · illustrative
Hi [Name], thank you again for the offer. I'm very interested and want to give it proper thought. Would it be possible to give you my answer by [specific date]? Best, [Your name]

Tell another employer you have an offer

When to use: To a company where you're still interviewing.

Template · illustrative
Hi [Name], I wanted to let you know I've received an offer from another company and need to respond by [date]. [Company] remains my first choice, so I wanted to ask whether there's any flexibility in your timeline. Thank you, [Your name]

Agree a start date

When to use: When confirming the offer.

Template · illustrative
Given my notice period at my current job, I'd propose a start date of [date]. Does that work for the team?

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Decision guide

Your first reply

Advice
Your first reply
SituationWhat to do
Verbal offerThank them; ask for writing and the deadline.
Need more timeAsk for a specific short extension.
Another process is ongoingTell them your deadline.
Ready to acceptAccept in writing. See how to accept.
Not right for youDecline politely. See how to decline.
Weak vs strong

The same move, done two ways

Illustrative example with fictional details.

Weak vs strong example
VersionExample
WeakSaid 'Yes! When do I start?' on the phone before seeing any terms.
StrongThanked the recruiter, asked for the offer in writing and agreed to answer by Friday.

Why it matters: Accepting before reading the terms removes your leverage and your chance to spot mistakes.

Mistakes

Mistakes to avoid

Advice
  • Accepting a verbal offer on the spot.
  • Asking for open-ended time.
  • Playing offers against each other dishonestly.
  • Forgetting to confirm the start date.
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FAQ

Questions people ask

How do I respond to a job offer?
Thank them, ask for the written offer, and confirm the decision date.
Is it okay to ask for time to consider a job offer?
Yes, a few days is a normal request.
What should I do with multiple job offers?
Tell each employer your deadline, compare written terms, and decide honestly.
Can I negotiate my start date?
Yes, especially to allow notice to your current employer.
Method

How this page is built

Written by Maid Dizdarevic, a career coach and 8x LinkedIn Top Voice. The steps, scripts and timing guides are practical advice, labelled as advice. We do not publish response rates, success rates or shares of employers, and every example uses fictional details.

What this page can't tell you
  • How a specific employer, recruiter or manager will act: practices vary by company, industry and person.
  • Legal advice: for contracts, background-check disputes, pay classification or a termination, talk to an employment attorney, the U.S. Department of Labor or your state agency.
  • Outcomes: no message, plan or program can promise an interview, a raise or a job.
Sources
  1. TryHired editorial guidance by Maid Dizdarevic, career coach, Nov 4, 2026.